Monday, March 30, 2020

Trying

try·ing
/ˈtrīiNG/
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adjective
adjective: trying
  1. difficult or annoying; hard to endure.
    "it had been a very trying day"
    Similar:
    stressful
    difficult
    taxing
    demanding
    tough
    hard
    heavy
    pressured
    testing
    frustrating
    fraught
    traumatic
    arduous
    grueling
    tiring
    fatiguing
    exhausting
    wearing
    hellish
    a bitch of a
    a stinker of a
    annoying
    irritating
    exasperating
    maddening
    infuriating
    tiresome
    irksome
    troublesome
    bothersome
    vexatious
    aggravating
    Opposite:
    easy
    painless
    accommodating
try
/trī/
verb
gerund or present participle: trying
  1. 1.
    make an attempt or effort to do something.
    "he tried to regain his breath"
    Similar:
    attempt
    endeavor
    make an effort
    exert oneself
    seek
    strive
    struggle
    do one's best
    do one's utmost
    do all one can
    undertake
    aim
    set out
    take it on oneself
    try one's hand at
    have a go/shot/crack/stab/bash
    give it one's best shot
    bend/lean over backwards
    bust a gut
    do one's damnedest
    pull out all the stops
    go all out
    go for broke
    knock oneself out
    break one's neck
    move heaven and earth
    give it a burl
    give it a fly
    essay
    assay
    • use, test, or do (something new or different) in order to see if it is suitable, effective, or pleasant.
      "everyone wanted to know if I'd tried jellied eel"
      Similar:
      test
      try out
      check out
      put to the test
      experiment with
      sample
      taste
      have a taste of
      inspect
      investigate
      examine
      appraise
      evaluate
      assess
      try something on for size
      give something a whirl
      trial
      pilot
      put through its paces
      put into practice
    • attempt to achieve or attain.
      "they decided to try for another baby"
    • NORTH AMERICAN
      compete or audition in order to join (a team) or be given (a position).
      "she tried out for the team"
    • go to (a place) or attempt to contact (someone), typically in order to obtain something.
      "I've tried the apartment, but the number is busy"
    • push or pull (a door or window) to determine whether it is locked.
      "I tried the doors, but they were locked"
    • make severe demands on (a person or a quality, typically patience).
      "Mary tried everyone's patience to the limit"
      Similar:
      tax
      make severe demands on
      strain
      put a strain on
      test
      stretch
      sap
      drain
      exhaust
      wear out
      tire out
      weary
  2. 2.
    subject (someone) to trial.
    "he was arrested and tried for the murder"
    • investigate and decide (a case or issue) in a formal trial.
      "such cases must be tried by a jury"
      Similar:
      adjudicate
      consider
      hear
      pass judgment on
      adjudge
      examine
  3. 3.
    smooth (roughly planed wood) with a plane to give an accurately flat surface.
  4. 4.
    extract (oil or fat) by heating.
    "some of the fat may be tried out and used"


The lovely English language.  Too many words and not enough so we keep using the sames ones to mean multiple things.

We are living in trying times.  In every sense of the word.

We are trying to flatten the curve of the pandemic growth.  We are trying to maintain a positive attitude.  We are trying to protect ourselves and our loved ones from catching the disease.  We are trying to stay at home.  We are trying to survive,.

Some people are trying to minimize what is happening while others are trying to not panic.

People are trying to help the vulnerable amongst us while others seem to be not even trying to understand the importance of physical distancing.  Politicians are trying to blame anyone and everyone but themselves for what is happening.  And trying to shift blame to others - especially others from other countries or political parties.

It is all very trying.

I have been having conversations (here and elsewhere) with friends and we are all agreed.  The number one priority right now is to survive.  

So I urge all my friends and acquaintances - try to stay home if you have the means.  Try to practice physical distancing from each other.  Try to remember to not touch your face when you are out, and when you get home wash your hands thoroughly with soap and water - a minimum of 20 seconds.  Longer is better.

Some people are immune compromised or by dint of age or other health considerations, are particularly vulnerable to this virus.  Everyone needs to get on board the isolation train.  Some countries are in actual lockdown, not the voluntary compliance that we are currently living with in my province.  The better we follow the isolation guidelines, the sooner the curve of growth will slow and the sooner the virus will have blown through.

If you don't go out, you don't need to fuss about whether or not you need to wear a mask.

If you stay in, you won't pick up the virus and you will not spread it.

Having lived through several periods of self-isolation for various reasons, I am well versed in not focusing on what I cannot, but on what I can.  This particular isolation is a piece of cake for me.  I do not have a broken anything.  I am not dealing with chemotherapy and trashing my immune system entirely.  I can weave, I can move around freely in my house.  I can even, when the weather improves, go for walks - maintaining safe physical distancing from anyone I encounter on said walk.

Spring is coming, in spite of the fresh snow yesterday.  This too shall pass.  At the end?  I would sincerely like all of you to still be here.

In the meantime, I will be weaving.  Because I can.

"Do, or do not.  There is no 'try'."

Currently reading The King's Justice by Susan Elia MacNeal

1 comment:

Doreen MacL said...

Thank you for trying to help us all get thru this!